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Why you shouldn’t wait for inspiration to strike with Harlan Coben

Sep 22, 2026 · 45m

Summary

Harlan Coben discusses his prolific writing career, treating it as a disciplined job rather than relying on fleeting inspiration. He explains how his characters, particularly Myron Bolitar, serve as wish-fulfillment avatars that reflect his own life experiences and unresolved losses. Coben also shares insights from his collaborations with Reese Witherspoon and Netflix, emphasizing that character development is inherently tied to plot and setting. The conversation concludes with reflections on the psychology of aging, the importance of progress over perfection, and the idea that individuals …

Topics discussed

Sponsor: Capital One Bank Intro: Early book signing anecdote Introduction of Harlan Coben and his career Why Myron and Winn resonate with readers Character development and wish fulfillment Treating writing like a job vs. magic Writing routines and finding the right spot Tools of the trade: Notebooks and pens How ideas originate: The boy in the woods Walking, creativity, and embracing boredom The balance of impatience and patience Progress, motivation, and the need for readers Sponsors: Skylight and Stripe Lessons from writing a book about writing Collaborating with Reese Witherspoon on The Missing Sponsor: Olympic Hospitality Lightning round: Worst writing advice Dream dinner guests and international fame The heart of the story: Givers vs. Takers Feeling 17 and bringing your own weather Seeing others in 3D vs. 2D and overconfidence Hubris, vulnerability, and closing thoughts Sponsors: Kohler and Schwab
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