Nudge Nudge

How much should you reveal to your co-workers

Aug 17, 2026 · 25m

Summary

Harvard professor Leslie John discusses her book *Revealing*, exploring how strategic self-disclosure builds trust and likability. She analyzes the 1997 Miss Universe final to illustrate the "Goldilocks principle" of sharing just enough information. John also presents research showing that expressive writing and affect labeling improve mental and physical health, while counterintuitively, strong privacy assurances can inhibit honesty.

Topics discussed

The Goldilocks Principle: Lessons from the 1997 Miss Universe Final Sponsor Message: HubSpot Why Revealing Sensitive Information Builds Trust and Likability Classroom Experiment: The Power of Vulnerable Conversation The Counterintuitive Effect of Privacy Assurances on Disclosure Sponsor Messages: Marketing School and FSB Expressive Writing and Physical Health Benefits Affect Labelling: Reducing Anxiety by Naming Emotions How Discussing Difficult Topics Increases Happiness The 'How Bad Are You?' Study: Humor and Disclosure Conclusion and Promotion of the Nudge Vaults
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