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How to find your flow state when you’ve lost it

Oct 15, 2026 · 32m

Summary

This episode of *Your Turn* explores the science of flow, a state of effortless immersion that helps people find purpose during midlife transitions. Host Alison Aubrey interviews neuroscientist Richard Husky, who explains how the brain becomes energetically efficient during flow, and violinist Diane Allen, who shares her journey from losing her passion for classical music to rediscovering joy by composing her own work. The discussion highlights how balancing skill and challenge allows individuals to regain momentum and meaning without needing to completely reinvent themselves.

Topics discussed

Sponsor: The Visitors play Introduction to Your Turn and the concept of flow Diane Allen's role as concertmaster and the pressure of performance The demanding schedule of a professional violinist The moment Diane's arms froze on stage Recalling an early flow state at age 15 Defining flow and Diane's midlife crisis Quitting the orchestra and show introduction Sponsors: Prolon, Charles Schwab, and Viking Introduction to Dr. Richard Husky and flow research The five key characteristics of the flow state History of flow theory and Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi Three conditions required to achieve flow Diane selling her violin and moving on How flow experiences evolve across a lifespan Measuring flow in the brain using MRI and video games Brain connectivity during flow: control and reward Dr. Husky's personal flow experience with data Why flow feels effortless: metabolic efficiency The relationship between mastery and brain energy Preview: Finding flow after losing it Sponsors: Prolon and Charles Schwab Diane's dark place and midlife identity crisis The Meow Wolf documentary and a shift in perspective Returning to the violin and playing Leonard Cohen Breaking classical rules and finding personal voice Writing original music and combining it with speaking Practical advice for finding flow in midlife The importance of skill-challenge balance Diane's evolving purpose from self-discovery to sharing Midlife reflection on self-care and resilience Conclusion: Repurposing past skills for new joy Credits and call to action Sponsors: Charles Schwab and NPR Politics
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