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10 Ways to Become Harder to Manipulate (no matter who you are dealing with)

Sep 14, 2026 · 40m

Summary

Host Alexis Fernandez shares a brain fact on carbon monoxide poisoning, explaining how it binds to hemoglobin to block oxygen delivery. The main segment outlines ten tactics to resist manipulation, including recognizing loaded analogies, rejecting the "my truth" fallacy, and spotting false dilemmas. She also advises against confusing familiarity with deep understanding and highlights the importance of tolerating the discomfort of not having an opinion on complex issues.

Topics discussed

Introduction and episode overview Life update: moving to a new office Brain Fact: Carbon monoxide poisoning Point 1: Recognizing loaded analogies Point 2: The fallacy of 'my truth' Point 3: Confusing familiarity with understanding Point 4: Refusing to entertain hypotheticals Point 5: Extreme black and white thinking Point 6: The halo effect and character Point 7: Recognizing false dilemmas Point 8: Creating artificial urgency Point 9: Moving the goalposts Point 10: The pressure to have an opinion Recap of the 10 critical thinking points Conclusion and call to action
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