Can Leftists Be Reasoned With? w/ Jessica Tarlov of "The Five" | “YOUR WELCOME” #433
Sep 16, 2026 · 1h 4m
Summary
Michael Malice interviews Jessica Tarlov to discuss her new book, *I Disagree*, which offers advice on navigating political polarization. They explore cognitive distortions in debate, Tarlov’s role as the dissenting voice on *The Five*, and the personal toll of public scrutiny, including Trump’s attacks. The conversation also addresses the incident following Charlie Kirk’s murder, where Tarlov and Greg Gutfeld clashed, and they reflect on the escalating nature of political violence and societal division.
Topics discussed
Introduction and abortion policy question
Book overview and the challenge of cross-partisan communication
The genesis of the book and finding the right tone
Editorial advice on using first-person narrative
Relationship with Meghan McCain
Role on The Five: villain figure vs. crazy aunt
Dynamics with co-hosts and the WWE comparison
Persuasion vs. listening and the long game of TV
Argumentation styles and emotional vs. factual debate
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Reaction to Trump's criticism and personal vulnerability
Safety concerns and the impact of online harassment
Humor in response to insults and cognitive health tips
The Charlie Kirk incident and disagreement with Greg Gutfeld
Navigating political violence and the need for empathy
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Recap of the on-air confrontation and dark humor
Hyper-polarization, youth radicalization, and violence
January 6th, international arrests, and the 'war' narrative
Elite dynamics and the perception of an onslaught
The E. Jean Carroll case and the 1990s context
Abortion policy, viability, and the 'shout your abortion' era
Eugenics, chromosomal abnormalities, and historical context
Reproductive healthcare access and the Jessica Tarloff moment
Leading with friendship in political conversations
Medicare for All and socialized healthcare views
Closing remarks and favorite parts of the interview
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