You Made It Weird with Pete Holmes You Made It Weird with Pete Holmes

We Made It Weird #261

Jul 31, 2026 · 1h 16m

Summary

Pete Holmes and Valerie Janney discuss humility, aging, and the tendency to judge past behaviors while ignoring one's own history. They explore themes of "transcending and including" through references to Richard Rohr, Carl Jung, and personal anecdotes about relationships and dreams. The conversation also touches on pop culture critiques, such as *Jurassic Park* and *The 40-Year-Old Virgin*, alongside stories about Pete’s daughter Lila’s theater performance.

Topics discussed

Intro, tour dates, and episode number correction Co-host dynamics and the 'People's Reggie' Watts Richard Rohr, biases toward women, and shame Dream analysis: directing films and Jurassic Park Dating compatibility, ergonomics, and friend conflicts Carl Jung, humility, and the 'bag of sand' bit Jimmy Kimmel, 40-Year-Old Virgin, and past embarrassment Transcending beliefs, aging, and neuroplasticity Lila's play performance and parenting instincts Neurodivergence, masking, and social norms Service industry masking and emotional regulation The Odyssey, nervous system regulation, and Slice ad
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