All Kinds of Minds: 2. Growing Up Neurodivergent
Aug 31, 2026 · 42m
Summary
Host Nathan Filer explores the struggles of neurodivergent children in schools, featuring stories from autistic adults Matthew Punter and Labiba Islam. SENCOs and psychologist Dr. Naomi Fisher discuss systemic pressures, long diagnosis waits, and the rise in school avoidance. The episode also highlights sensory integration therapy as a support tool, arguing for a more flexible, inclusive education system that prioritizes student well-being over rigid academic metrics.
Topics discussed
Introduction: Matthew's chaotic childhood and autism
School struggles: Misunderstanding instructions and attitude
Defining neurodivergence and diagnostic labels
The role of SENDCOs in supporting students
Emotionally Based School Avoidance (EBSA)
Early identification vs. waiting for diagnosis
Labiba's journey to an autism assessment
Long NHS waiting lists and school isolation
Matthew's anxiety, fence climbing, and special schools
The rigid school system and rising absenteeism
Empathy for families and the anxious education system
Teenage burnout and the pressure for attendance
Sensory regulation and occupational therapy
Understanding sensory processing in young children
Sensory challenges in busy school environments
Play-based therapy and building tolerance
Extending the window of tolerance for children
Rethinking education: Intrinsic motivation and choice
Matthew's work with neurodivergent youth and startups
Critique of diagnosis and preview of next episode
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