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All Kinds of Minds: 2. Growing Up Neurodivergent

Aug 31, 2026 · 42m

Summary

Host Nathan Filer explores the struggles of neurodivergent children in schools, featuring stories from autistic adults Matthew Punter and Labiba Islam. SENCOs and psychologist Dr. Naomi Fisher discuss systemic pressures, long diagnosis waits, and the rise in school avoidance. The episode also highlights sensory integration therapy as a support tool, arguing for a more flexible, inclusive education system that prioritizes student well-being over rigid academic metrics.

Topics discussed

Introduction: Matthew's chaotic childhood and autism School struggles: Misunderstanding instructions and attitude Defining neurodivergence and diagnostic labels The role of SENDCOs in supporting students Emotionally Based School Avoidance (EBSA) Early identification vs. waiting for diagnosis Labiba's journey to an autism assessment Long NHS waiting lists and school isolation Matthew's anxiety, fence climbing, and special schools The rigid school system and rising absenteeism Empathy for families and the anxious education system Teenage burnout and the pressure for attendance Sensory regulation and occupational therapy Understanding sensory processing in young children Sensory challenges in busy school environments Play-based therapy and building tolerance Extending the window of tolerance for children Rethinking education: Intrinsic motivation and choice Matthew's work with neurodivergent youth and startups Critique of diagnosis and preview of next episode
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