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Why can’t I remember being a baby?

Aug 16, 2026 · 29m

Summary

Host Noam Hassenfeld explores infantile amnesia with cognitive psychologist Tristan Yates, who explains that babies form memories but lose them due to rapid brain development. They discuss how the hippocampus prioritizes learning patterns over specific events during early life. Professor Dana Susskind adds that while specific memories fade, early interactions build crucial neural infrastructure and emotional resilience. The episode concludes that imperfect parenting and friction are vital for healthy development, even if the child won't remember the moments.

Topics discussed

Intro, ads, and personal stories about false memories Ads for Fetch Pet Insurance and Whatnot Why we can't remember being babies: Infantile amnesia Baby IMAX: fMRI study on infant hippocampus activity Neurogenesis and statistical learning in early infancy Sensitive periods and the impact of early experiences Ads for Rippling and Anthropic Family anecdotes and Dr. Dana Susskind's background Brain architecture: Building hardware vs. software The importance of friction and imperfect parenting Outro, credits, and final ads
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