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426: What if a masked man appeared at the foot of your bed? [Rebroadcast #316]

Sep 3, 2026 · 57m

Summary

Host Whit Misseldein recounts surviving a home invasion and rape by Zane Peterson, a former groomsman from her wedding. She details the trauma of the attack, her subsequent struggle with PTSD and rage, and the two-year legal battle that resulted in Peterson’s conviction. The episode explores how she reclaimed her power through therapy and assertiveness, transforming from a victim into a survivor who refuses to live in fear.

Topics discussed

Intro, sponsorships, and summer rebroadcast announcement Episode introduction and Arm & Hammer ad Childhood trauma and parental dysfunction Controlling relationships and people-pleasing patterns Marriage to Cody and the impact of alcoholism Workplace harassment and post-separation anger The intruder enters the home Sponsor break and initial shock of the attack Kidnapping, restraint, and psychological manipulation Rape and the intruder's erratic behavior Discovery of guns and threats of death Surviving the night and protecting her son Escaping to the grocery store and calling for help Police response, ER visit, and immediate aftermath Sponsor break: James Arthur Ray documentary Living with fear, PTSD, and family conflict Identity of the attacker revealed Trial, victim impact statement, and ongoing threats Reflections on trauma, justice, and healing Outro, subscription info, and credits
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