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429: What if you didn't see the signs? [Rebroadcast #247]

Sep 15, 2026 · 51m

Summary

Mitchell shares the devastating story of his daughter Kristen’s murder by her boyfriend, detailing his initial unease and the subsequent legal proceedings. He reflects on the cycle of abuse, identifying patterns like isolation and gaslighting that often precede such tragedies. To honor his daughter, Mitchell now advocates for domestic violence awareness, writing a book and hosting a podcast to help others recognize red flags.

Topics discussed

Introduction, sponsorships, and series context Host introduction and episode recap Early life, creative interests, and education Meeting wife, marriage, and birth of daughter Daughter's career, new relationship, and first meeting Growing concerns and final family dinner A day of strange events and police contact Receiving the news of the murder Telling family and initial grief Media coverage and emotional coping Visiting the crime scene apartment Reconstructing the night of the murder Thoughts on revenge and the preliminary hearing The trial, plea deal, and family statements Post-trial reflections and recognizing manipulation Finding meaning and writing a book The cycle of abuse and warning signs Retrospective on missed warning signs Perpetrator's parole status and personal mission Closing remarks, event reminder, and credits
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