Gen Z-ers Are Ditching Sex. They Might Be On to Something.
Summary
Host Wesley Morris joins reporters Carter Sherman and Christine Emba to explore the "sex recession," where Gen Z is having significantly less sex than previous generations. They analyze causes including smartphone substitution, the #MeToo movement, mental health priorities, and toxic online dating advice that fuels mutual distrust between genders. The discussion also covers the rise of "loneliness influencers" and argues that while digital intimacy offers ease, real-world friction and community are essential for personal growth and political engagement.
Topics discussed
Introduction to Cannonball podcast and Wesley Morris
Rising celibacy rates among young people since 2010
Gen Z delaying milestones like driving, drinking, and sex
The complex social environment shaping modern dating
Impact of the Me Too movement on male behavior and anxiety
Institutional failures and the culture of fear around sexual violence
Social media's role in polarizing dating advice for men and women
Mental health, medication, and pressure on masculinity
Prioritizing self-investment over risky dating and relationships
Shift from hookup culture to long-term relationship desires
The 'capstone' model of relationships and reclaiming power
The rise of 'loneliness influencers' and curated solitude
Solitude vs. community and the future of civil society
Dating app rejection and the difficulty of real-world connection
AI companions, OnlyFans, and the avoidance of friction
The value of heartbreak and friction in personal growth
Political power, nihilism, and the need for community
Political divides on sex, marriage, and traditional values
Optimism for platonic bonds and broader intimacy
Conclusion: Technology and the potential for deeper connection
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