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Secondhand Embarrassment: The Moth Podcast

Oct 2, 2026 · 17m

Summary

Hosted by Emily Couch, this episode explores the concept of "Fremdschämen" or secondhand embarrassment through two personal stories. Sarah Finney shares her panic after accidentally posting a naked selfie to Facebook, while Jren Ega reveals the awkward discovery that a poem she gifted her mother was likely written by her late father’s ex-girlfriend. Both narratives highlight the universal human experience of cringe and the resilience found in moving past social blunders.

Topics discussed

Moth Mainstage Tour: Tightrope Alma: Billing for Therapists California Closets: Home Storage Intro: Fremdscham and Secondhand Embarrassment Sarah Finnein: The Accidental Naked Facebook Photo Sarah Finnein: Post-Story Reflection Listener Story: Mom's Homecoming Dance Mishap Squarespace: Website Design Culligan Purity: Workplace Water Jren Ega: The Mother's Day Print and the Mystery Poem Jren Ega: Post-Story Reflection Outro and Credits Nissan Rogue: Reliability and Quality Happy V: Vaginal Health Probiotics
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