The Mel Robbins Podcast The Mel Robbins Podcast

The Exact Episode You Need to Hear Today if You Feel Overwhelmed, Stressed, or Stuck

Aug 13, 2026 · 1h 10m

Summary

Mel Robbins interviews therapist Keir Gaines, who discusses building "emotional fitness" to navigate modern stress and improve relationships. They explore how men are conditioned to suppress emotions, often masking fear with anger, and offer practical advice for fostering authentic connection. Keir also addresses how women can avoid over-functioning in partnerships to create healthier dynamics.

Topics discussed

Intro, sponsors, and guest Keir Gaines introduction Emotional fitness and the importance of pausing Understanding insecurity and avoiding blame Masculinity, emotions, and connecting with men Sponsors: IXL, Wayfair, and BetterHelp Over-functioning in relationships and self-worth Managing anxiety, depression, and overwhelm Taking control, finding purpose, and closing thoughts
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