The Exact Episode You Need to Hear Today if You Feel Overwhelmed, Stressed, or Stuck
Aug 13, 2026 · 1h 10m
Summary
Mel Robbins interviews therapist Keir Gaines, who discusses building "emotional fitness" to navigate modern stress and improve relationships. They explore how men are conditioned to suppress emotions, often masking fear with anger, and offer practical advice for fostering authentic connection. Keir also addresses how women can avoid over-functioning in partnerships to create healthier dynamics.
Topics discussed
Intro, sponsors, and guest Keir Gaines introduction
Emotional fitness and the importance of pausing
Understanding insecurity and avoiding blame
Masculinity, emotions, and connecting with men
Sponsors: IXL, Wayfair, and BetterHelp
Over-functioning in relationships and self-worth
Managing anxiety, depression, and overwhelm
Taking control, finding purpose, and closing thoughts
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