The Hard Shoulder The Hard Shoulder

What is it like to be gay and catholic?

Sep 29, 2026 · 10m

Summary

This episode explores the tension between Irish Catholicism and the LGBT community, asking if one can be both Christian and queer. It features personal stories from Michael O'Reilly, who left the faith after facing bullying, and Maria Walsh, a practicing Catholic lesbian expecting a child. The discussion includes theologian Padraig O’Tuma on Church teachings, Father Bernard Lynch on his dismissal for coming out, and St. Teresa’s parish in Dublin, which offers an inclusive alternative.

Topics discussed

Intro: Can a more accepting Church bring Irish Catholics back? Reporter returns to Mass after years away Michael O'Reilly: Coming out and leaving the faith The tension between Catholic dominance and LGBT inclusion Maria Walsh: Being a practising Catholic and openly lesbian Clarifying Church teachings vs. Biblical texts The Catechism's definition and stance on homosexuality Father Bernard Lynch: Losing his job after coming out Street interviews: Parishioners call for modernisation St. Teresa's Church: Creating an inclusive parish Welcoming LGBT families for funerals and rites Michael Fernandes: A priest's message of unconditional love Navigating faith, sexuality, and community acceptance Sign-off
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