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The rise of the ‘indie dad’

Oct 16, 2026 · 8m

Summary

Hosts Keira Kelly and Shane Coleman explore the "indie dad" phenomenon, debating whether middle-aged men attending gigs of younger artists drain the room's energy. Guests comedian Steve Cummins and journalist Dee Reddy discuss the balance between appreciating new music and gatekeeping, with Cummins urging fans to "not let the old man in" while Reddy highlights how judgmental behavior affects performers. The segment also features listener perspectives on the impact of disengaged audience members on the overall concert atmosphere.

Topics discussed

Introduction to the 'Indie Dad' phenomenon and backlash Dee Reddy on gatekeeping and mutual criticism Steve Cummins: Appreciate the art or stay home Morgan Freeman quote and the 'old man' mindset Steve on the 'adolescence of old age' and freedom Listener view: Kate Henshaw on ruining the buzz Viral dad video and the gendered term 'Indie Dad' Dee on male gatekeeping in music journalism Dee's experience with men's magazine sections Steve's son and positive raving experiences Final thoughts on folded arms and room energy
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