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Why does replying to texts feel like a full time job?

Nov 4, 2026 · 9m

Summary

This episode explores the overwhelming nature of modern digital communication, specifically the pressure of WhatsApp group chats and voice notes. Hosts Keira Kelly and Shane Coleman discuss the loss of boundaries between work and personal life, comparing instant messaging to "single-use plastic" due to its constant, unreciprocated demand for attention. They also examine how younger generations are increasingly opting out of social media, contrasting this with the "always-on" culture that has replaced the judicious texting habits of the past.

Topics discussed

Street interviews on WhatsApp voice notes and group chats Kelly Early joins: The history of text message limits and costs The pressure of instant replies and the chaos of group chats Blurred boundaries between work, family, and friends on one device Instant messaging as 'single-use plastic' and digital fatigue Gen Z's cautious approach to social media privacy Hosts reflect on phone dependency and lack of boundaries
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