The Hard Shoulder The Hard Shoulder

Men’s Aid Ireland report shows victims are reluctant to come forward

Oct 19, 2026 · 8m

Summary

Keira Kelly discusses a new Men's Aid Ireland report with CEO Shane Kelly, highlighting the persistent stigma that prevents men from reporting domestic abuse. They explore how psychological abuse and coercive control often go unrecognized by victims, who may not identify themselves as such. The conversation also addresses a concerning rise in partners encouraging suicide and the significant barriers men face, such as fear of losing custody or housing, when attempting to leave abusive relationships.

Topics discussed

Show introduction Men's Aid report on stigma and suicide encouragement Why men hesitate to report abuse Societal perceptions and lack of belief Raising awareness and recognizing abuse Psychological abuse and erosion of confidence Partners encouraging suicide Psychological impact and rebuilding confidence Prevalence of domestic abuse among men Supports available through Men's Aid Barriers for men leaving abusive relationships Helpline details and closing remarks Listener message about abusive relationship Show sign-off
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