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Alisa Kovalenko on surviving conflict-related sexual violence

Sep 28, 2026 · 11m

Summary

Alyssa Kovalenko shares her harrowing 2014 experience of being captured, interrogated, and sexually assaulted by Russian forces in the Donbas region. After two years of silence, she became the first Ukrainian woman to publicly address conflict-related sexual violence, using documentary theater to break the stigma. Now based in Dublin, she works with international human rights organizations to combat the use of sexual violence as a weapon of war globally.

Topics discussed

Rakuten and QVC commercial breaks Introduction of Alya Kovalenko Background: Maidan Revolution and decision to document Donbas Capture, interrogation, and sexual violence in captivity Two years of silence and stigma Breaking the silence and isolation The terror of interrogation and fear of death Uncertainty and threats to family during captivity Coping with trauma and self-blame Using theater and connecting with other survivors Finding solidarity and strength in community Sexual violence as a weapon of war Global fight for justice and legal recognition Closing remarks and crisis resources
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