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The Small Bow: God Can’t Help You Until You Get Out of the Way

Aug 15, 2026 · 53m

Summary

On The Small Bow Podcast, host AJ Delario interviews 96-year-old Connie Caruso, who shares her 48 years of recovery and wisdom on aging, grief, and faith. Connie discusses her journey from addiction to self-acceptance, her relationship with God, and her candid views on family dynamics and service. She offers practical advice on managing rage and letting go of ego to allow spiritual growth.

Topics discussed

Intro: Aerie sponsorship and Small Bow podcast overview Meeting Connie Caruso: Age 96, recovery, and lack of fear of death Relationships: Boyfriend Michael and forgiving past debts Resentments: Family dynamics and a daughter seeking fame Self-love, virtual boyfriends, and the 12-step program Past therapy, intolerance for liars, and judging character Pain as a teacher and writing a memoir for her daughter Motherhood regrets, daughter's success, and book details Concept of God, friendship, and being of service Helping a friend with 'professional victim' sons Sponsorships: Gab phones, Quince clothing, Mint Mobile Listener Q&A: Letting go of grudges and temper issues Prayer, nail-biting history, and grief over a friend's death Brother's death, lack of grief, and family dynamics Addiction to diet pills and relationship with daughter Humility, AA bravery, and lack of sexual cravings Turning 97, managing rage, and 'getting out of the way' Grocery store incident and confronting a bully Childhood trauma, challenging God, and final thoughts
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