E207: *NSFW* Lillian Frances - Fingerbanging for climber boys, communication, consent
Jul 15, 2026 · 1h 32m
Summary
Hosts Sam Pryor and Aidan Roberts interview Lillian Francis about her book, *Finger Banging for Climber Boys*. The episode explores digital stimulation, female pleasure, and consent through a climbing lens, aiming to normalize these conversations. Francis discusses her background as a musician and recreational climber, using humor to address serious topics like communication and breaking down ego in sexual relationships.
Topics discussed
Introduction and guest overview
Guest background and climbing history
Climbing philosophy and mindset
Music career and pop star identity
Origin story of the book Finger Banging for Climber Boys
The book as a Trojan horse for consent education
Defining active consent and communication
Practical scripts for sexual boundaries
Anatomy, feedback, and long-term relationships
Conclusion and contact information
Hosts' reflections on consent and masculinity
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