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The Joy of Touching Grass (and Knobs, Buttons, and Boarding Passes)

Aug 11, 2026 · 51m

Summary

Brett McKay interviews Ian Bogost about his book *The Small Stuff*, which explores the sensory gratification found in everyday physical interactions like using a manual transmission or handling a paper menu. Bogost distinguishes this immediate, tactile pleasure from broader happiness and satisfaction, arguing that modern automation and digitization are eroding these meaningful connections to the material world. He suggests reclaiming this "dematerialized" life by accepting these small moments of engagement rather than treating them as chores.

Topics discussed

Sponsors: Shopify and Factor Meals Introduction to Ian Bogost and The Small Stuff The nostalgia of manual transmissions and tactile engagement Defining happiness, satisfaction, and gratification Gratification as acceptance rather than forced attention How automation and convenience reduce gratifying experiences The loss of physical controls in cars and vending machines Finding delight in small goals and minor mistakes Sponsors: Indeed, ButcherBox, Chime, and Superpower The decline of tactile engagement in white-collar work Sensory memories of typewriters and embossed credit cards Andy Rooney, gripes, and noticing the material world Keeping junk and detritus for sensory variety The gratification of physical boarding passes Talking about small pleasures to normalize them Orthogonality in sensory experiences and conclusion Sponsor: Flexcar
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