If I Don’t Return: A General's Wartime Journal for His Sons
Summary
Retired three-star General Mark Hurtling discusses his book *If I Don't Return*, based on a journal he started for his sons during Operation Desert Storm. He reflects on the moral weight of war, the importance of planning for friction, and the value of handwritten notes and deep friendships. Hurtling also shares personal stories about making every day count, the impact of combat on family, and lessons on leadership and character development.
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Introduction to General Mark Hurling and his book
The origin of the journal during Operation Desert Storm
Rediscovering the journal and the decision to publish
Lessons on leadership, growth, and the value of journaling
The importance of friendship and long-term studies
Making every day count and honoring fallen soldiers
Practices for daily positivity and community connection
Advice on dating, marriage, and maintaining date nights
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Military planning, strategy, and the importance of preparation
Applying Clausewitz's theory of friction to modern warfare
The enduring value of handwritten notes and gratitude
Reflections on language, profanity, and personal standards
Confronting moral injury and the reality of combat
The 'Build Me a Son' prayer and raising resilient men
Where to buy the book and closing remarks
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