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Why is it so hard for men to open up? A journalist and an entrepreneur answer | Joshua Johnson and Blake Mycoskie

Sep 12, 2026 · 30m

Summary

Social entrepreneur Blake Mikoski and radio host Joshua Johnson explore the crisis of male loneliness and the art of deep connection. They share personal stories about fatherhood and friendship, emphasizing that asking open-ended questions and embracing silence are powerful tools for vulnerability. The conversation highlights practical ways to rebuild intimacy, such as initiating coffee chats and establishing family rituals that affirm self-worth.

Topics discussed

Introduction to TED Intersections and guests Preview: Fatherhood, friendship, and daily rituals Sponsorship segments: CFA, Capital One, Land Rover Opening philosophy: The power of asking questions Are we losing the ability to have real conversations? Men's loneliness: Starting with self-reflection Practical tip: Inviting a friend to coffee Blake's story: The Rugged Adventure Club Joshua's story: Estrangement with his father Sponsorship segments: Scribd and Kohler Joshua's transformational interview with Eric Holder Blake's conversation with his kids on self-worth The 'You Are Enough' bracelet and its meaning Redesigning connection: Education and common core Tips for deeper conversations: Silence and time Closing remarks and credits Sponsorship segments: Toyota, CFA, Capital One
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