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What my politically divided family teaches me | Tami Pyfer

Oct 7, 2026 · 14m

Summary

Civic leader Tammy Pfeiffer shares how her politically diverse family inspired her to develop the Dignity Index, a tool for measuring respectful discourse. She argues that contempt is the primary threat to democracy and that cultivating dignity is essential for healthy debate. Through personal anecdotes and examples from political speech, Pfeiffer illustrates how recognizing our own biases can transform interactions in families and communities.

Topics discussed

Intro: Tammy Pfeiffer and the politics of family Sponsor: Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center Sponsor: Apple Card Sponsor: PERC expense management The portrait business and perspective gaps Family tension and the rise of contempt Defining dignity as the antidote to contempt Introducing the Dignity Index scale The mirror effect: recognizing our own bias Humanizing qualities beyond political labels Coaching a speech at a political event Conclusion: Dignity is essential for democracy Credits and production team Sponsor: Apple Card Promo: TED Business podcast
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