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I can't speak. Here's how I get people to listen | Jessica Irwin

Oct 22, 2026 · 9m

Summary

Jessica Irwin, a nonverbal photographer and author with cerebral palsy, shares her urgent message that being nonverbal does not imply a lack of intelligence. She highlights the critical failures in healthcare settings where patients are often ignored or subjected to unnecessary pain due to communication barriers. Irwin offers practical solutions, such as asking yes-or-no questions and using eye contact, to help others better engage with nonverbal individuals. Her talk serves as a sharp, humorous reminder to treat nonverbal people with the same respect and normalcy as anyone else.

Topics discussed

Introduction to Jessica Irwin and her nonverbal condition The misconception of brain damage and intelligence Sponsor: Apple Card Sponsor: Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center Sponsor: Planet Visionaries Jessica's talk: The struggle of expressing thoughts The limitations of communication devices in emergencies Hospital experiences and the inability to say stop Simple communication techniques for healthcare settings Involuntary muscle grip and the 'bear trap' hand Tips for interacting with nonverbal individuals Conclusion: Jessica's identity and call to action Credits and production team Sponsor: Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center Sponsor: Land Rover Defender Sponsor: Capital One Spark Cash Plus
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