How people are using AI to grieve, love and connect | Jennifer Cearns
Oct 28, 2026 · 17m
Summary
Digital anthropologist Jennifer Kearns argues that AI is revealing, rather than diminishing, our humanity by serving as a new space for intimate connection. Through stories of individuals using AI to process grief, navigate romantic relationships, and practice compassion, she demonstrates that these interactions mirror ancient human behaviors of forming meaningful bonds with non-human entities. Kearns contends that these conversations help people define their values and social instincts, making our capacity for connection more visible.
Topics discussed
Introduction: AI revealing humanity, not diminishing it
Sponsor segments: Citizens Bank, TikTok, and Apple Card
Raquel's story: Reconnecting with a deceased daughter via AI
The anthropologist's perspective: Shifting the question
Historical context: Humans and non-human relationships
The rise of AI companions: Scale and user demographics
Lisbeth's experience: Navigating AI relationship glitches
John's story: Using AI to navigate grief and compassion
AI as a space for moral and social practice
Conclusion: AI making our humanity visible
Outro, credits, and announcements
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