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How people are using AI to grieve, love and connect | Jennifer Cearns

Oct 28, 2026 · 17m

Summary

Digital anthropologist Jennifer Kearns argues that AI is revealing, rather than diminishing, our humanity by serving as a new space for intimate connection. Through stories of individuals using AI to process grief, navigate romantic relationships, and practice compassion, she demonstrates that these interactions mirror ancient human behaviors of forming meaningful bonds with non-human entities. Kearns contends that these conversations help people define their values and social instincts, making our capacity for connection more visible.

Topics discussed

Introduction: AI revealing humanity, not diminishing it Sponsor segments: Citizens Bank, TikTok, and Apple Card Raquel's story: Reconnecting with a deceased daughter via AI The anthropologist's perspective: Shifting the question Historical context: Humans and non-human relationships The rise of AI companions: Scale and user demographics Lisbeth's experience: Navigating AI relationship glitches John's story: Using AI to navigate grief and compassion AI as a space for moral and social practice Conclusion: AI making our humanity visible Outro, credits, and announcements
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