Emily Post: Ettiquette Queen
Summary
This episode explores the life and legacy of Emily Post, the pioneering etiquette expert who revolutionized social conduct by emphasizing ethics over wealth. The hosts discuss her background as a novelist and society member, her divorce, and the creation of her influential 1922 book, *Etiquette*. They highlight her progressive approach, which made manners accessible to all classes, and her use of fictional characters to illustrate social rules. The conversation also covers her personal tragedies, including the death of her son, and her enduring impact through the Emily Post Institute.
Topics discussed
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Introduction to Emily Post and her legacy
Emily Post's progressive approach to etiquette
The context of etiquette books in the US
Emily Post's family background and Tuxedo Park
Naming conventions and family dynamics
Emily Post's marriage and early writing career
The blackmail scandal and divorce
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Transition from novels to practical advice columns
The road trip and 'By Motor to the Golden Gate'
Writing 'Etiquette in Society, Politics, Business, and Home'
Philosophy of 'Good Society' and ethics over wealth
Relevance of Emily Post's rules today
Character archetypes and humor in her writing
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Analysis of the 'Mrs. Newwed' dinner party story
Core values and the importance of character
Adapting to change and generational differences
The failure of 'Parade' and personal loss
Gardening, architecture, and updating her book
Writing under a pen name and later works
Legacy and the Emily Post Institute
Modern etiquette advice from the Institute
Final quote on likability and show outro
Listener mail and pronunciation joke
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