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The Sunday Interview: Damned If She Does - Why Women Are Leaving the Church

Aug 30, 2026 · 49m

Summary

Brad Onishi interviews journalist Sarah Stancorb about her new book, *Damned If She Does*, which explores why women are leaving American churches in record numbers. They discuss how women’s departure signals broader secularization, driven by institutional hypocrisy, sex abuse cover-ups, racism, and homophobia. The conversation also examines the varied spiritual paths former members take and the resulting demographic shifts in religious communities.

Topics discussed

Intro and sponsor reads for Axis Mundi and Sally Introduction to the book on women leaving the church Women as the glue of religious communities and secularization Rise of militant patriarchy and the Catholic sex abuse crisis Impact of Black Lives Matter and racial justice on church attendance Sponsor reads for Ground News and Mint Mobile The 'Gay Scare' and LGBTQ+ issues driving disaffiliation Why this moment of leaving is unique and definitive Future religious landscape and the failure to attract men Post-church spirituality: Dabbling vs. robust worldviews Loneliness in church and sponsor reads for Mint and Lincoln Rediscovering personal belief and institutional trust Demographics of atheists, agnostics, and organized atheism Author tour dates, subscription perks, and final ads
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