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How One Liberal Outfoxes MAGA (with Jessica Tarlov)

Sep 17, 2026 · 1h 11m

Summary

Jessica Tarlov, the "Lone Liberal" on Fox News' The 5, discusses her new book, I Disagree, which offers strategies for winning arguments without losing friends. She explains her approach to "opening minds" rather than changing them, emphasizing data-based storytelling and understanding the emotional pain behind opposing views. Tarlov shares anecdotes, including praise from Quentin Tarantino, and advises listeners to engage with source material, listen actively, and treat political opponents with the same care one would show a friend in a difficult relationship.

Topics discussed

Sponsors and show introduction Welcome to Jessica Tarlov and book overview The challenge of hosting The 5 on Fox News Personal anecdotes and AI-generated content Co-hosting dynamics and the 'how do you do it' question Background as a data-based storyteller and goal setting Opening minds vs. changing minds Impact of representation and physical reactions to information Why she does not use her PhD title Defining 'opening a mind' and establishing good faith Earning a spot at the table and demonstrating open-mindedness Engaging with source material and understanding opponents Knowing when to talk and when to listen Navigating sensitive topics like political violence Maintaining friendships across political divides Using data and averages to build ironclad arguments Strengthening your own position through debate Talking to children and understanding economic motivations Sponsor breaks for Quince and Mint Mobile Why calling people 'dumb' is ineffective Arguments to make to Trump supporters The 'bad relationship' analogy for political debate Strategic value of caring about the person Matching the level of seriousness in political discourse Prioritizing outrage and finding analogies in non-political life Media appearances and the value of reaching Fox audiences Why fewer liberals appear on Fox News The power of stories and narratives over data Using specific examples and conservative values in arguments Insider community promo and Carvana ad Listener question on federal public comment processes Legal analysis of Trump's $5,000 dividend promise Show credits and final Carvana ad
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