#202 - Grace Kuhlenschmidt
Oct 12, 2026 · 2h 1m
Summary
Grace Kulenschmidt joins Stavvy to discuss their shared "invisible ink" childhoods and the absurdity of modern technology. They joke about Greek cultural stereotypes, including a pulley system for food delivery and the necessity of infidelity to avoid brain cancer. The conversation shifts to Grace’s desire to become a stepfather to Hilary Duff, followed by a review of the movie *Nirvana*. They also share funny anecdotes about gym culture, including being treated as an inspiration by instructors and being silently ignored by jacked gay men in West Hollywood.
Topics discussed
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Welcome and studio banter
Childhood stories and neighborhood characters
Nostalgia for 90s entertainment
Age comparisons and youthful spirit
Lying to parents about smoking
Brain lesions and parenting jokes
Gender spectrum and Mr. Beast
Ethics of posting kids online
Concert memories and Hilary Duff comparisons
Destiny as a stepfather
Deserving to marry Hilary Duff
The chef and stepfather fantasy
Canadian politeness and filming
Bugs Bunny and the boiling pot
Top-heavy body types
One-arm workouts and middle school anger
Pizza sliding and gym attention
Gym class name calling
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Desire for less gym attention
Treadmill pride and low-impact cardio
Old Navy summer line
Gay men calling themselves fat
Leg press and gay gym etiquette
Feeling threatened by jacked gay guys
Who is actually mean?
Gayest looking girl and straight style
Support staff and poor people
Fat mascot movies
Food addiction and JLP1
Kooky relapses
Weird Airbnb and weed jealousy
Year without drugs and relapse
Sobriety and food dopamine
High, CPAP, and 11-hour sleeps
Downers vs. uppers
Crazy heat weed and vapes
Budgeting for a vaporizer
Google pills and the volcano
Scrolling as resistance
AI and killing Eldis
The Vault podcast edition
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Picky eaters and sports bars
Knife at school and food prep
Wearing her down
Current relationship with the bully
Smart cops and rapist owners
No bully, just minor enemies
Horatio Sanz and Road Trip
AI overview and Wikipedia
Financial freedom and relationships
Luck and Baltimore sports bar
Sacrificing experiences for family
Bully watching and $8
Money as a psychological hang-up
Sacrificed experiences and Disney
Dying at the desk and money
Mid-20s realizations
Parents and money issues
Being an awesome dad
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Diarrhea metaphor and bloating
Beers and new reality
Activities and dating
Perfect person and divorce
Electric fence and bargaining
Gay, vegan, and Berlin
Celiac and meat allergy
Fruits and three people
Alcoholics and Heineken Zero
Phone call about the episode
Height and gym
Depression and missing sex
Losing weight to look better
Biological impulse and doctor
Babysitting and men's bathroom
Little girl in men's room
Farts and scolding
Little girl in women's room
Labeling loose friends
Patreon and the cheek zone
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