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Why doesn’t anybody come to my parties?

Jun 15, 2026 · 47m

Summary

Host PJ Vogt investigates why Substack writer Claire Haber-Harris struggles to get guests to attend her parties. Through interviews with friends, family, and her husband, the episode explores Claire’s social anxiety, performative attempts to fit in, and polarizing personality traits. The investigation reveals that her awkwardness and mismatched interests make her gatherings unappealing to the "normie" crowd she tries to attract.

Topics discussed

Sponsors: Rosetta Stone and Snapple Facts Introduction to Claire Haber-Harris and her Substack The Mystery: Why Nobody Comes to Claire's Parties Claire's Social Anxiety and Childhood Experiences Sponsors: Hexclad and Liquid I.V. Interview with Liz: A Friend's Perspective Interview with Meredith: The Bouncy Castle Incident Interview with Alyssa: Past Parties and Nick's Role Interview with Nick: Claire's Husband Speaks Interview with Brother: The 'Bigfoot in a Suit' Theory Conclusion: Claire's New Approach to Socializing Sponsors: Quince, Raycon, and Atari Hotels
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