Why doesn’t anybody come to my parties?
Jun 15, 2026 · 47m
Summary
Host PJ Vogt investigates why Substack writer Claire Haber-Harris struggles to get guests to attend her parties. Through interviews with friends, family, and her husband, the episode explores Claire’s social anxiety, performative attempts to fit in, and polarizing personality traits. The investigation reveals that her awkwardness and mismatched interests make her gatherings unappealing to the "normie" crowd she tries to attract.
Topics discussed
Sponsors: Rosetta Stone and Snapple Facts
Introduction to Claire Haber-Harris and her Substack
The Mystery: Why Nobody Comes to Claire's Parties
Claire's Social Anxiety and Childhood Experiences
Sponsors: Hexclad and Liquid I.V.
Interview with Liz: A Friend's Perspective
Interview with Meredith: The Bouncy Castle Incident
Interview with Alyssa: Past Parties and Nick's Role
Interview with Nick: Claire's Husband Speaks
Interview with Brother: The 'Bigfoot in a Suit' Theory
Conclusion: Claire's New Approach to Socializing
Sponsors: Quince, Raycon, and Atari Hotels
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