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Savage Love Episode 1040

Oct 13, 2026 · 55m

Summary

Dan Savage opens the show by celebrating Democrat Chris Gallant’s refusal to drop out of his congressional race after old fetish modeling photos surfaced, arguing that this marks a cultural shift where "dirty pics" are no longer political liabilities. He then advises a bisexual man to come out to his adult children, emphasizing that visibility is crucial for the broader LGBTQ+ community even if the caller’s romantic life remains heterosexual. Savage also discusses the dynamics of kink compatibility, suggesting that while dating established kinky partners is ideal, vanilla partners can be "b…

Topics discussed

Sponsor: Love Unlimited Intro: Chris Gallant's modeling past Dirty pics and political normalization Show preview and After Action Report Sponsors: V-B Health, Foria, Beducated Caller: Coming out as bisexual to adult kids Sponsor: Load Boost Caller: Dating vanilla partners as a kinky person Sponsor: Foria Awaken Caller: Asking a BDSM bouncer to be your Dom Sponsor: Beducated Caller: Adult child estranged by new partner Caller: Hooking up with a potential 'hot mess' Listener feedback on previous episodes Hump Fall Tour and film festival submissions Outro and social media links
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