Savage Lovecast Episode 1034
Sep 1, 2026 · 53m
Summary
Dan Savage opens by discussing King James I’s sexuality and Dolly Parton’s open marriage, then advises a military couple on the legal risks of non-monogamy under the UCMJ. He suggests a strategy for women to stop faking orgasms without hurting their partners' egos and answers questions about tubal ligation recovery. Savage also guides a listener on supporting their trans sister’s independence from abusive parents and explains the social etiquette around public chastity key jewelry.
Topics discussed
Intro: Stranger Genius Awards and Savage Love Cast
King James I: History, Letters, and Gay Identity
Dolly Parton's Marriage: Monogamy vs. Open Relationship
Show Preview: Kink Jewelry, Faking Orgasms, and Trans Family
Military Adultery: Uniform Code of Justice and Polyamory
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How to Stop Faking Orgasms Without Hurting Partner's Ego
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Tubal Ligation: Listener Experiences and Doctor Pushback
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Helping Trans Sister Come Out to Transphobic Parents
Chastity Key Jewelry: Etiquette in Public Spaces
Listener Comments: Self-Hatred and Timeshare Boyfriends
Deleting Ex Photos, Tantric Sex, and Hump Film Festival
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