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Savage Love Episode 1044

Nov 10, 2026 · 52m

Summary

Dan Savage opens with commentary on the 2024 midterm elections, celebrating Democratic gains and the election of the first openly gay man to the U.S. Senate. He then discusses a 2006 study on nipple stimulation, noting that while many men enjoy it, they rarely request it due to societal stigma. The episode features listener advice on navigating mismatched libidos with a busy partner, finding casual sexual partners as a straight woman, and handling ex-partners who share intimate content online.

Topics discussed

Intro and political news setup Midterm election results and reactions Reflections on Trump, the GOP, and Lindsey Graham News: 'Shame lips' retired in favor of 'Vulvalipin' Show preview and Magnum subscription promo Sponsor: VB Health supplements Q&A: Nipple play, porn, and size changes Q&A: Navigating sexting boundaries and meetups Sponsor: Mack Weldon clothing Q&A: Managing libido mismatch with a high-energy partner Sponsor: VB Health Load Boost Q&A: Dating strategies for a stripper with fluctuating libido Sponsor: Quince clothing and gifts Q&A: Handling an ex-partner's shared kink content Q&A: Is there such a thing as coming too soon or too late? Listener comments on previous episodes Call-in comments and Hump Film Festival promo Sponsor: Love Unlimited toys
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