My Toddler Is Scared of Everything
Summary
Janet Lansbury addresses a parent’s concern about her two-and-a-half-year-old’s increasing fear of everyday noises and situations. She explains that this sensitivity often stems from rapid brain development and language blossoming, rather than specific trauma. Lansbury advises parents to validate feelings without overreacting or removing triggers, helping children learn they are safe even when uncomfortable.
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Intro: Janet Lansbury's new book Baby Person
Listener question: Toddler's increasing fears and anxiety
Developmental context: Brain maturity and sensitive temperaments
Language development: Labeling feelings vs. actual emotions
Parental response: Validating without reinforcing fear
Why reasoning fails: Dysregulation and parental discomfort
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Practical tips: Handling noise triggers like vacuums
Practical tips: Cars, daycare, and holding boundaries
Conclusion: Supporting through feelings without rescue
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