The Death of Romance
Aug 6, 2026 · 29m
Summary
Host Hannah Rosen interviews *The Atlantic* staff writer Faith Hill about the "romance slump," a growing trend where young adults are disengaging from dating due to exhaustion and changing social norms. They explore how women, like Treasure, are finding independence and happiness in singlehood, while men, like Arthur, struggle with conflicting expectations and social rustiness post-pandemic. The episode examines whether this shift represents a loss of connection or a liberating redefinition of purpose and community.
Topics discussed
Sponsors: Target Circle and San Pellegrino Chow
Introduction to the Romance Slump and Faith Hill
Defining the Romance Slump and declining rates
Causes: Financial independence and dating app fatigue
The Gender Gap and Treasure's story of giving up
Treasure's post-romance life and financial independence
Analysis of Treasure's model and the loss of romance
Transition to men's experiences and sponsors
Arthur's struggle with modern dating expectations
Arthur's gradual withdrawal and post-COVID social rust
Balancing yearning for love with other life priorities
Faith Hill's personal reflections on the romance slump
Conclusion: Hope, adaptation, and the rom-com ending
Credits and promotion for How to Touch Grass
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