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Introducing: Reaching Out

Sep 23, 2026 · 39m

Summary

This episode of *Reaching Out* follows Sarah Covedo and his twin brother Connor as they navigate their divergent lives and a shared impulse to find their unknown biological father. The narrative spans from their initial decision to search during the pandemic to their eventual discovery of their father’s identity in Los Angeles. Through recorded phone calls and reflections, the podcast explores themes of family, identity, and the stories we construct to make sense of absence. It culminates in the brothers confronting the reality of their father’s existence and the complex emotions that arise…

Topics discussed

Introduction to the podcast 'Reaching Out' The unrecorded call and the theme of memory The recorded call: Connor's chaotic lifestyle Contrasting lives: Stability vs. Freedom The cost of divergent paths and family distance Past attempts to process fatherlessness through art Choosing to forget: Deleting the search at age 20 Therapy sessions and the fear of never falling in love Pandemic isolation and the start of recording calls Stories of the mother's past from Auntie Michelle Vague memories of the birth father from the mother Life in lockdown: Breaking up and moving to LA Arrival in Los Angeles and the wildfire season Loneliness in a new neighborhood and turning 28 Connor finds the birth father's name via DNA Discussing the discovery and mixed feelings Searching for the father online and recording the story Discovering the father is a local barber nearby Credits and production team acknowledgments
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