Where Have All The Masc Lesbians Gone?
Oct 15, 2026 · 1h 15m
Summary
Hosts Karbin and Em explore the "mask shortage" narrative with guests Dr. Tori Smith and Rhea Carey, defining butch, stud, and mask identities while debunking the idea that butches are disappearing. The episode examines the intertwined histories of lesbian and trans communities, highlighting how butch culture was historically criminalized and how modern transphobic panic is often fueled by external fascist agendas rather than internal community conflict.
Topics discussed
Sponsor: Progressive Insurance
Introduction and guest introductions
Defining butch and stud identities
Trans masculine, lesbian, and queer labels
The history and reclamation of the word dyke
Navigating label conversations without conflict
Generational shifts in butch aesthetics and visibility
Safety, accessibility, and passing in public spaces
Sponsor: Field Dating App
The 'Butch Flight' narrative and trans men in history
Celebrity transitions and the fear of loss
Fascism, Project 2025, and community division
Defining sapphic and the sociological approach to labels
Inclusion in organizations and historical foremothers
Inclusivity in lesbian spaces and events
The disappearance of lesbian bars and pop-up culture
Intertwined lesbian and trans histories
Class, criminalization, and butch culture
Butch-femme sexual dynamics and myths
Sponsor: Beducated
Sponsor: TomboyX Underwear
Leslie Feinberg, Sandy Stone, and community division
Gender nonconformity and historical figures like Pauli Murray
Butch invisibility and global violence against butches
Masculinity in crisis and heteronormative assumptions
Global lesbophobia, forced marriage, and land rights
Intersectionality and the Western concept of coming out
Invisibility as a function of lesbophobia
Sexualization by men and the 'othering' of butches
Navigating PDA and assumptions in public
Survival strategies: De-escalation and corporate spaces
Visibility as protest and using privilege for safety
The paradox of butch invisibility and changing styles
Sponsor: PlayWell
Representation of butches in media and film
Softening butchness in American television
Lesbians as allies to the trans community and bathroom policing
Conclusion and where to find the guests
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