Passion Struck with John R. Miles Passion Struck with John R. Miles

Duke Behavioral Economist: Why You’ll Regret the Risks You Don’t Take | Dan Ariely - EP 811

Aug 25, 2026 · 53m

Summary

John R. Miles interviews behavioral scientist Dan Ariely about the gap between short-term regret for actions and long-term regret for inaction. They discuss how bureaucracy and an obsession with measurable efficiency suppress human passion and motivation in the workplace. Ariely highlights that people often avoid necessary risks, particularly in romantic relationships, leading to deeper regrets later in life. The conversation explores how organizations can foster intrinsic motivation by valuing human connection over rigid compliance.

Topics discussed

Introduction: Regret, risk, and intentional living Dan Ariely on irrationality and human motivation Passion as the highest order of motivation Embracing irrational acts as part of humanity The dehumanizing effect of online procedures Ancient pottery and the drive for self-standards Losing identity through utility-focused work Co-dependency and expectations in relationships Organizations that kill passion vs. those that fuel it The difficulty of measuring passion and care Loss aversion and corporate fear of mistakes Bureaucracy, AI, and the loss of creative risk Efficiency vs. fulfillment in work and relationships Improving employee engagement at Lowe's Personal connection and intrinsic motivation Investing in human capital as an asset Regret of action vs. regret of inaction Where we play it safe in life and career Conclusion: Embracing risk and midlife gains
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