145: The Secret to Feeling Happier Before Anything Even Happens
Summary
Host Shannon Laco explores how anticipation fuels joy by triggering dopamine, extending positive experiences, and providing hope. She warns against traps like living only for the future, overplanning, and unmet expectations. Laco offers ten practical strategies to cultivate anticipatory joy, including weekly rituals, seasonal traditions, and delayed gratification, to help listeners design more intentional and fulfilling lives.
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Sponsors: Zenni, K-12, and Quaker Oats
Introduction: The power of anticipation and joy
Reason 1: Anticipation triggers dopamine
Reason 2: Anticipation extends and amplifies joy
Reason 3: Anticipation fosters optimism and hope
Trap 1: Forgetting to enjoy what you already have
Trap 2: Overplanning and burning out
Trap 3: Unrealistic expectations and rigidity
Summary of traps and transition to solutions
Sponsors: Zazzle, Quince, Bowl & Branch, Green Chef
Tip 1: Create a daily glimmer ritual
Tip 2: Plan trips and day outings
Tip 3: Make lists of things to do or read
Tip 4: Establish seasonal traditions
Tip 5: Schedule social plans with friends
Tip 6: Plan a personal project to work towards
Tip 7: Build small daily rituals to look forward to
Tip 8: Celebrate meaningful milestones
Tip 9: Block out time for enjoyable tasks
Tip 10: Practice delayed gratification
Conclusion and final thoughts on intentional living
Sponsors: Zazzle, Zenni, Quince, Bowl & Branch
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