He Survived a Mass Shooting. Then Came the Hard Part.
Aug 21, 2026 · 17m
Summary
Tyler Spadey recounts his survival of the 2018 Borderline Bar and Grill mass shooting in Thousand Oaks, California. He describes the chaos of the attack, his escape, and the profound grief of losing thirteen friends. Spadey reflects on how the tragedy strengthened community bonds and aided his personal healing. The episode highlights resilience, faith, and the enduring connections formed in the aftermath of trauma.
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Introduction to the Borderline Bar and Grill shooting
Tyler Spadey's night out and the moments before the shooting
The shooting begins and Tyler takes cover
Podcast break and sponsor ads
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The chaotic escape through the kitchen and to safety
Reunion with family and processing the immediate aftermath
Grieving friends and the community's response
Healing, moving to Montana, and returning for the anniversary
Closing thoughts and final sponsor ads
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