Order of Man Order of Man

Identity After Job Loss, Raising a Daughter, and Overcoming Anger Issues | ASK ME ANYTHING

Sep 2, 2026 · 52m

Summary

Hosts Kip and Ryan discuss the "wild man" archetype, arguing that modern society suppresses men's natural instincts. They address listener questions on balancing gym time with family, managing anger through reflection, and separating identity from career after job loss. The episode also covers strategies for sobriety, handling resentment toward ex-spouses, and why the outdoors serves as a vital recharge for men.

Topics discussed

Men's wild nature vs. societal docility and Jiu-Jitsu camp Imposter syndrome, vulnerability, and belt promotion stories Balancing gym time with family and setting boundaries Systems for quitting drinking and redefining identity Managing anger, leadership styles, and parental reflection Finding identity after job loss or retirement Handling resentment toward an ex-spouse The appeal of the outdoors, hunting, and the 'Wild Man' Defining legacy through skills and upcoming events
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