Order of Man Order of Man

Gifts with Strings Attached, Embarrassing Habits, & Protecting Your Children from the Digital Realm | ASK ME ANYTHING

Sep 16, 2026 · 1h 27m

Summary

Hosts Ryan and Alan discuss the definition of sports, debating whether RC racing qualifies, before addressing listener questions on navigating financial gifts from in-laws and guiding a teenage son through extreme online ideologies. They also explore the distinction between purposeful suffering and stubbornness in chronic pain, and how men can maintain their identity when a physical injury or career change disrupts their self-image.

Topics discussed

Defining identity beyond external roles Debate: Is RC car racing a sport? Analyzing the definition of a sport Handling a father-in-law's mortgage gift Discussing personal vices and bad habits Is alcohol or pornography abuse manly? Embarrassing moments and driving code 3 Job dissatisfaction and finding purpose Navigating a son's radicalization online The impact of mentors on adolescent development Admitting imperfection to your children Chronic pain vs. stubbornness and strength Identity beyond sports and hobbies Managing triggers from past relationships with kids Overcoming feelings of inadequacy without a degree Compartmentalizing parents' flaws and forgiveness Navigating marital impasse on having another child Leadership in marriage: Providing vs. controlling Finalizing the definition of a sport Upcoming episode preview and outro
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