Order of Man Order of Man

Bad promotions, Good Cults, and Drunk Friends | ASK ME ANYTHING

Sep 23, 2026 · 54m

Summary

Kip and Ryan discuss Stoic principles, noting their alignment with Christian values and Jesus’s composure. They address listener questions on balancing career promotions with family time, expressing affection without overcorrecting, and rebuilding trust after divorce through consistency and emotional safety. The hosts also explore maintaining sobriety by upgrading one’s social circle and finding joy in outdoor activities despite physical limitations.

Topics discussed

Stoicism, Jesus, and recent wedding Post-vacation routine and AMA format The hidden costs of achieving goals Effortlessness vs. suffering for results Intentionality and avoiding FOMO Parental affection and love languages Navigating post-divorce narratives with kids Building trust: The 3 C's formula Safety, predictability, and discipline Making peace with sobriety and fun Upgrading your social circle Maintaining long-distance friendships Stoicism, Christianity, and wisdom Staying outdoors despite physical injuries Male worth beyond income and identity Defending men's groups and closing remarks
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