How should we be talking about the Cornell case?
Summary
Christine Emba discusses the Cornell gang rape allegations to explore the gap between legal consent and moral decency. She argues that focusing solely on legality ignores broader issues of human dignity, care, and the cultural normalization of extreme behavior. The conversation also examines how pornography shapes young men’s expectations and the need for earlier education on ethical relationships and mutual responsibility.
Topics discussed
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Introduction: The gap between legality and morality
Why the Cornell case ignited public outrage
Content warning and details of the alleged assault
The visceral reaction to the case's specific details
Would outrage exist if consent had been given?
Defining the gap between legality and decency
The challenge of moral judgment in a pluralistic society
Broader social landscape: misogyny and pornography
Sponsorship and podcast promotions
Consent as a legal standard vs. ethical good
The evolution of consent norms and the need for care
Historical context: Me Too and the 'I consented but felt used' dilemma
The co-option of sex positivity by capitalist culture
The role of men and the presumption of entitlement
How extreme pornography shapes young men's expectations
Sponsorship: Your Turn with Alison Aubrey
Elizabeth Sheff on the complexity of consent and power
Responding to Sheff: Power differentials and ethical sex
Defining 'willing the good of the other' as an ethical standard
The need for early moral formation and duty of care
Preview of next episode and final sponsorship
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