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Shai Held — On Love, and Judaism

Mar 26, 2026 · 1h 17m

Summary

Krista Tippett interviews Rabbi Shai Held about his book *Judaism is About Love*, exploring how love functions as an existential posture rather than just an emotion. Held discusses his journey from a secular upbringing to reclaiming Jewish theology, emphasizing the need to hold complex truths like partiality and universal obligation. He argues that religion must be mindfully inherited to amplify love while taming its potential for harm, integrating ancient wisdom with modern understanding of trauma.

Topics discussed

Introduction: Rabbi Shai Held and his book on love Personal history: Cognitive dissonance and loss of father Judaism's complicated history with the concept of love Defining love: Hebrew words and disposition vs emotion Abiding love, possibilism, and holding complexity Loving the stranger and the role of redemptive memory Trauma, lament, and the reality of human suffering The nature of God: Love, anger, and divine attributes Love of enemies: Jewish tradition and practical application Political rage, empathy, and the future of Israel Conclusion: Hope, Torah, and the gap between theology and life
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