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Why are Gen Z men happier living with their mums?

Nov 6, 2026 · 6m

Summary

Counselling psychologist Leslie Shoemaker discusses new research showing young men are increasingly likely to live with their parents, attributing this trend to "manosphere" pressures and unrealistic expectations. The conversation explores how men are falling behind in education and dating markets, leading to a "relationship recession" and societal concerns about a generation of isolated men.

Topics discussed

Research: Young men living with parents vs. marriage rates Guest introduction and initial reaction to the data Impact of manosphere culture and rising loneliness Financial stability as a prerequisite for marriage Self-imposed pressure and dating difficulties Comparison with Japan and the 'companionship' economy Why women navigate independence better than men Men falling behind in education and societal metrics Unrealistic expectations and social media influence Long-term societal risks for a 'dropped out' generation Discussion of 'The Lost Boys' and 'Relationship Recession' How previous generations defined self-worth through struggle Education, longevity, and the shift in marriage timelines Changing female expectations and dating app demographics Closing remarks and show sign-off
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