My So-Called Midlife with Reshma Saujani My So-Called Midlife with Reshma Saujani

Revisit: Advice Only Works if You Can Use It with Mel Robbins

Mar 4, 2026

Summary

Reshma Saujani hosts Mel Robbins to discuss navigating midlife stress, particularly the struggle to control others' feelings. They explore Robbins' "Let Them Theory" and the "5 Second Rule," sharing strategies for managing anxiety, setting boundaries with family, and accepting the natural evolution of friendships. The conversation emphasizes taking personal responsibility and focusing on what one can control to find peace and purpose.

Topics discussed

Intro: Midlife stress and introducing Mel Robbins Mel's rock bottom and the 5 Second Rule Career rise from unemployment to CNN Gender differences in job loss and hustle culture Managing guilt and shifting family values Sponsors: Quince, Talkiatry, Google Health, Quaker Let Them philosophy and letting go of perfection Navigating difficult mother-daughter dynamics Why friendships fade and how to reconnect Sponsors: Windows 11, Indeed, Toyota, AG1 The ABC Loop for reducing relationship friction Conclusion: Being present and show credits
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