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'Mormons in Media' crossover: Watching 'The Altar' so you don't have to

Aug 9, 2026 · 55m

Summary

Mormons in Media and Mormon Land hosts Nicole Weaver and Meg Walter recap the cringe-worthy YouTube dating series "Provo's Most Eligible." They analyze the show's evolution from a parody of The Bachelor to a controversial format that highlights awkward BYU dating dynamics, including gender imbalances and mission service as a status symbol. The discussion critiques the participants' insecurity, the "manosphere" influence on male contestants, and the use of rage-bait questions to drive engagement.

Topics discussed

Introduction and origins of Provo's Most Eligible History of the show and ABC cease and desist The Altar season and Utah dating culture BYU bubble and the three bachelors Cringe-worthy contestant entrances and talents Dating dynamics and 'selfish' mindset Mission service as a dating flex Gender imbalance and awkward questions Gen Z conservatism and political views Sponsor Bucked Up and deer antler powder Shame, vulnerability, and social media exposure Virginity expectations and rage bait questions Monetary motives and algorithmic content Performative behavior and inauthenticity Final thoughts and desire for male embarrassment Real Housewives of Salt Lake City gossip Nostalgia for the original basement era
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