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Four Questions: You wouldn’t say that to a man!

Oct 5, 2026 · 17m

Summary

Lydian Hines and Maya Dunphy discuss the challenges of single parenting, sharing stories about the mental load and the relief of brief getaways. They address gender biases in media, noting how women are often questioned about travel and childcare in ways men are not. The pair also critique a flawed poll on life happiness and reflect on rediscovering youthful hobbies in their forties. Finally, they share personal anecdotes about alcohol intolerance and the surprising rise of Gekkes as a major Swedish tourist destination.

Topics discussed

Single parenting and the challenge of taking a break The mental load and children's growing independence Promoting the Dublin Theatre Festival and recent shows Discussion on the musical 'Lourdes' Gender bias in media and the 'babysitting' comment Parental WhatsApp groups and asking men about motherhood Critique of a poll on happiness and aging Rediscovering hobbies and interests in one's 40s Daytime nightclubs and knowing your preferences Quitting alcohol and sulfite intolerance Ikea day trips and the Swedish shopping destination Gekkes Closing remarks and sign-off
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